Life. A Burden or Bliss!

Life: A Burden or Bliss?

“Din aise gujarta hai koi,

Ehsaan jaise utarta hai koi”

Some people go through life as if they are repaying a never-ending debt. Every day feels like a burden, every responsibility a chain, and every relationship a source of disappointment. They live in a perpetual state of dissatisfaction—complaining, blaming, and feeling victimized. Their expectations from others are sky-high, yet they seldom hold themselves to the same standards. They live by the mindset of “I am OK, but you are not OK.”

Such individuals find flaws in everything. If it’s a job, they feel exploited. If it’s a relationship, they feel deceived. If it’s success, it’s never enough. Life, for them, is not a journey to be embraced but a struggle to be endured. They see kindness as weakness, honesty as naivety, and love as a risky investment. Their lives become a series of unfulfilled expectations, making happiness an elusive dream.

But then, there are others—the ones who embrace life with open arms and a joyful heart. They wake up with gratitude, eager to discover what the day holds. They may not be the richest in material wealth, but they are wealthy in spirit. They greet people with warmth, find joy in the smallest things, and spread positivity wherever they go.

For them, life is a blissful adventure. They don’t dwell on betrayals or hold grudges. They forgive, let go, and move forward, understanding that resentment is a heavier burden than misfortune. They believe in celebrating each moment, finding wonder in the ordinary, and laughing at life’s ironies. Their happiness is not dependent on external validation but on their own inner peace.

Such people follow the philosophy of “I am OK, You are OK.” They do not seek approval from others; they are their own source of contentment. As the couplet beautifully expresses:

“Aaina dekh ke tasalli hui,

Is ghar mein jaanta hai koi.”

(Looking at the mirror, I felt satisfied that someone knows me in this house.)

Guchi.