I am unsure of my origin or my ultimate destination. What is the purpose of my life, and how should I pursue it? Where was I before birth, and where will I go after death? Why was I born into this specific family and country? What is the nature of my relationships with my siblings and children? Why do I act the way I do? The reason for my existence, as intended by the creator, eludes me. These questions puzzle me deeply and have been pondered by many, including great saints. I recall the words of the renowned poet and Sufi saint Bulleh Shah, who wondered: “Bulleya, ki jaana main kaun?” or “Oh Bulleh Shah, I do not know who I am.”
After contemplating these questions for the past 73 years, I remain bewildered. Is life about studying, working hard, earning well, raising a family, educating them, and ensuring their success? Such a view seems selfish, focused solely on personal and familial prosperity. Or is life about selflessly serving society while neglecting one’s own family? Or perhaps it’s about renouncing worldly ties and awaiting salvation. These are extreme stances. Despite my efforts to find answers in scriptures, I remain unsatisfied. Thus, I’ve decided to follow some simple principles that bring me peace:
1. Ensure my actions and words do not harm anyone.
2. Avoid coveting what is not mine.
3. Uphold fairness and justice.
4. Listen to and follow my inner voice.
5. Control anger, greed, lust, attachment, and jealousy as much as possible.
6. Discipline and limit my desires.
7. Bear no ill will towards others and wish them well.
8. Help others financially if possible, or at least offer moral support.
9. Encourage my family and kins to be good human beings.
10. Above all, thank the Lord for His blessings.
Guchi.
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